Whether you are 20 or 80 years old, the most challenging part of finding love can often be just that – actually finding someone. Typically those over 60 have eliminated the usual meeting places like school and work, both of which afford the ability to get to know someone over the span of weeks, months, or even years of time spent side by side. This leaves many widowed or divorced boomers wondering not just whether they are ready to jump back into dating, but where in the world they will ever find this person. Read on for some helpful tips on finding love after 60.
Be open and ready. The great thing about interpersonal sparks is that they can quite literally happen anywhere – strolling in the park, in line at the movies, or enjoying a beverage at the cafe. If you’re ready to push yourself a little, consider signing up for a group event like an exercise class or a book club. The important thing to remember when you have decided to wade back into the love pool is that you are worthy of real and true love. Carry your head high and consistently remind yourself of your positive qualities and you may find that no matter where you are, people are naturally drawn to you.
Use technology. If you’re comfortable with it, online dating has the potential to become an incredible resource for finding meaningful love, with scads of dating website options existing online. Most are specifically geared toward target demographics, which will help effectively narrow down the search for your perfect mate. As with all new ventures, be aware and diligent, taking the time to research the available options to find a trusted site that is right for you.
Don’t waste your time. Not everyone in your age range and proximity will be a match, but rest assured, there is someone out there who is looking for someone just like you. As a person who has lived a full life, having loved and lost, you have the valuable perspective of knowing exactly who you are and what you want in a partner. If you meet someone and you two just don’t gel, don’t stress! Be open, honest, and kind in the decision to move on.
Be confident. Ultimately, finding love is often hinged more on who you are rather than where you are. When you carry yourself with confidence and comfort in your own skin, you may find that it becomes easier to interact with new people. This ease will help to open up a world of possibilities, turning each place you go into a possible meeting site.
As you step out into what has likely become unfamiliar territory, wear your confidence proudly, represent yourself authentically, and be open for cupid’s arrow to strike!
